Out in Arlington

The Accidental Activist

My name's Dennis Coyle. I'm a gay man in Arlington, Virginia, near Washington, DC. I was in the closet until the summer of 1998, coming out a few weeks after my 34th birthday. After a few months of enjoying being out and having too much fun, a young man named Matthew Shepard died that October in Laramie, Wyoming. Murdered for the fact that he was gay.

I realized being out wasn't enough and became active with the local gay community. Being out is great. Being active is better! I met my husband, Dave Mallory, not long after I got interested in activism and he's a big part of how I learned to use my professional skills as a web developer to make a difference.

My husband, Dave, and I live in a a great area. Arlington has a very large LGBT community and it's very easy to be Out in Arlington. Here are a few pics of me, Dave, and some of our cats. Look around the site and let me know what you think. I share my life here in the hope that it might help someone else come out, get involved, and make a difference.

Dennis


Just for fun: a video of my cat, Heinlein
(Windows WMV format, 2mb)


Some Pics

Dennis and HeinleinDave and Heinlein

Me, left, Dave Right, with our puppy cat Heinlein

Me and Dave at the 2006 Mautner Project Gala

me and Dave

Me and Dave, June 2006 at Baltimore Pride

me with 'Caffrey and Heinlein

Me with 'Caffrey and Heinlein, my 20 pound lap cat!

Dave and Dennis

Me and Dave in Ft. Lauderdale

Dave and Dennis on the DC AIDS Ride

Dave and Dennis on the DC AIDS Ride, 2002

Dennis and 'Caffrey

Me with my tabby girl, 'Caffrey.

Dennis and Dave on a boat ramp

Me with my partner Dave at
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Dave and Eyore

Dave with his Eyore, Christmas 2002


 
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